Managing creative people: How to deal with the problem child.

February 16, 2006 · 2 Comments

Seattle’s School of Visual Concepts frequently offers a full-day workshop on Managing Creative People, typically led by Tiffany Young, creative director of Seattle’s Smashing Ideas. The curriculum touches on hiring, motivating, and managing those with large and fragile egos. A topic that also gets a fair amount of attention is what to do with the loose cannon, or the problem child. Here are few thoughts gleaned from a recent workshop.

Everybody has one (or two or ten). We’re talking about the employee who’s slacking off, badmouthing, ignoring instructions, or spreading ill will in any number of ways. Tiffany Young, creative director of Smashing Ideas, and boss to 18 pixel-wrangling designers and writers, recently shared her fool-proof method of dealing with the difficult at a day-long workshop at SVC. Among her gems:

Start with praise.
Here’s the first thing to do when you call someone into your office for “the chat.” While every bone in your body will resist handing out kudos to someone you’d rather strangle, dig deep and find something nice to say—if not about their work, then their attire, car, or pet boa. The idea is to get them to let their defenses down so they can hear what’s coming next.

Speak hypothetically.
Rather than go for the personal attack, consider language that puts the situation in the hypothetical. For instance, “Terrell, we have a problem where some members of our team feel that they’re being disrespected.” Or you can put the burden of solving the problem back on the problem-maker by saying things such as, “Tanya, what would you do if you were me and you had two members of the team who were being so competitive it was getting in the way of their work?”

Set boundaries and give chances.
Even though steps 1 and 2 are about defusing the situation, you shouldn’t be a wimp. You’ll need to make it very clear about what’s acceptable as far as you’re concerned. So emphatically state what the rules are, and then give your problem child a chance to get in line. For example, you might say, “I don’t tolerate employees belittling each other behind their backs. So what are you willing to do to assure me this won’t happen again?”

Praise again or punish.
Change is hard, so if, after a few days, you see that your employee has made a sincere effort to behave, that’s worth a pat on the back. On the other hand, if your words took a quick ear-to-ear trip on your employee’s cerebral express lane, then feel free to put them on official notice.

Check with your company’s general manager or HR department, if you have one, about the proper way to document your conversations. That way, when the time comes to hand out the pink slip, you’ll avoid insomnia and courtrooms.

Categories: Staffing and Management

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  • Nan // June 10, 2006 at 6:26 pm | Reply

    This assumes the complaint about the employee is accurate and that you have all the information. It skips the crucial step of inviting the employee into dialogue and jumps right into correction mode. You may not have the full facts. Give the person a chance to speak on their own behalf. For instance, maybe the person who complained about the employee is the company’s best management suck-up but laziest designer, who always manages to get others to do the shit work while he/she collects the credit. Maybe the “problem child” just isn’t willing to be a door mat. Or maybe his/her parent just got a terminal diagnosis. In short, there can be many reasons for “problem behavior” that they didn’t feel were appropriate to bring up, or not know how to. So add these steps: Invite dialogue. Yes, state the expectations, but use a team approach by asking, “How can we improve the situation together?” “Is there anything I/we can do to support you?” “Let’s meet again in a week to see how things are going.” Employers who invest in their employees this way are often rewarded by seeing the problem child transform into a loyal and valued performer.

  • kathy // November 14, 2008 at 11:20 am | Reply

    very helpful, hoping it will help me deal with my problem child!!

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